10. Analyzing The Structure Of Your Language

If we want to find out what the structure of our language says about us then the following will help. First we must decide to be vulnerable, not thinking about what we're saying or why or how. The content is immune to all judgment. Let it flow as fast as we can. Just speak or write. No one else needs to ever see or hear this. This whole exercise is for us only. When the time comes, when we are ready, we must analyze, not necessarily the content, but its structure. What's bigger than it should be, what's unclear and foggy, and what's missing? Make note of each of these, asking why curiously. Thereafter we must transition back to the open voice we first had. I call this Big Foggy Missing, a rebranding of the NLP metamodel’s generalization, distortion, and deletion.